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The # 1 Thing All Happily Maried People Have Commonly

Mittwoch, Dezember 18th, 2019

The # 1 Thing All Happily Maried People Have Commonly

No, it’s perhaps perhaps not communication that is“healthy or “quality time together.”

We read lot about relationships.

Being truly a high author in love, therapy, and relationships on Medium requires lots of research whenever you’re maybe maybe not really a psychologist (or hitched, for example).

Recently, I read guide called The Seven Principles in making wedding Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver. Admittedly, we picked this name because my boyfriend and I also anticipate engaged and getting married soon, and, well, we’re really hoping making it work.

The idea that is overall of those concepts (and each great therapy book I’ve ever read) comes right down to this:

All cheerfully married people display closest friend behavior.

Based on Gottman and Silver, “Friendship fuels the flames of love given that it supplies the most useful security against feeling adversarial toward your partner.”

Think about any of it: once you >overwhelming disproportionate towards the mental poison. She forgot to order your sandwich without onion, would you give her “the look” or start shouting about how “selfish and inconsiderate” she is for not remembering the way you like your sandwich if you meet a friend for lunch and? (mehr …)